Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Holiday Letter from Amber












Happy New Year! This is Amber here. I thought I would write a quick holiday letter on Dean’s blog, since I have neglected writing my own. Anyhow, I will give a brief rundown of 2008’s travels and new developments in our life. This year, we went to Boston for a conference in March. It was nice to see the city and fun to have Dean come along. We visited a brewery, went to a market, ate Italian food and visited Harvard’s campus for a nap in the sun. We also wanted to see a lot of family across the country before heading to Uganda. So, we went to Dallas for my 31st birthday to celebrate with my grandmother, who turned 91. She stole the show! We also went to South Carolina to see Dean’s sister, Kelly, her husband and their son, Derek. It was a great visit. We went to Charleston and took a carriage ride, we drank a beer from the oldest brewery in the United States, and we spent some quality time just catching up. In July, we also went to Sweden for Cissi’s 30th birthday. It was so great to take Dean to Sweden, since it is a very special place for me and holds a unique spot in my heart. Cissi had a huge party in a tent overlooking the lake, where her family owns several ‘stugas’ or cottages. Truly amazing…and the sun dipped below the horizon for about 2 hours, then was up again! We stayed up all night and Dean played guitar for everyone. We also visited Uppsala to see the oldest university in Sweden and visit the garden of the fella who invented the two part naming system for plants. Then, we headed to a wedding of a friend of mine in Missoula. It turns out that the woman he married is a dear friend to my dear friend’s sister! So, I got to see Kristen Malone and surprise her in Missoula. And then we headed to Uganda in September and October…..We have also done a bit of moving around here, the capitol, to Rwanda, Queen Elizabeth National Park and to Lake Bunyonyi. This year I also experienced two firsts: I flew a Cessna airplane for the first time and I dug clams and oysters for the first time. Both were invigorating. I recommend both! But, as I reflect on this year, I am thinking primarily of all the support and love from friends and family that make our lives possible and bring magic and joy to us. We would not be living this dream in Uganda if it were not for each one of you being there along the way. A lot of people really pulled together for fundraising during our last months in Seattle. People also came together to wish us well and to let us know they are behind us. And, we think about your contribution to this stage in our life every day. Happy New Year!!! We love you!

Bzzzzzzzzzz


For the first time since 1993 I paid for a haircut for myself. I’ve been a DIY haircutter ever since I moved out on my own. My last haircut was from my Mom’s friend Forrest’s salon in Pioneer Square and it was just before I graduated from art school (I wonder what happened to that guy?). I’ve gone through 2 electric clippers since then. I decided not to bring them to Africa just for a change. They didn’t seem to be nervous about cutting muzungu hair so I wasn’t nervous either. I sat down in the barber’s chair and said “make it all one length please”. The barber pulled his clippers out of a contraption labeled “Super Afro Sanitizing Machine” and got to work. The people in the salon stared at me while Amber took photos. It wasn’t long before it was clear the guy wasn’t going to cut it all one length. I’m not sure what happened during the conversation when I said “make it all one length please” and the barber said “okay”, but he was clearly working on a fade. I’m not vain about my hair, a big reason why I always cut it myself, so I decided to be quiet and just see what happens. This guy was very into his work. He took a lot of care getting the fade just ever so smooth. He outlined my sideburns and hairline around my temples so they were clear and sharp. He sculpted a little poof front and center. And he gave me a flat top. Thanks, I think. Actually it’s not bad. It’s just been a really long time since I’ve had an actual “haircut”. Does this mean I need products? All in all I will go back to him. The only part that struck Amber and I wrong was at the end when going to pay they wanted to charge us 10,000Ush. The sign on the wall said “Haircut 3,000Ush”. Amber points to the sign “what do you mean?” They say that’s for black people’s hair. But muzungu hair costs 3 times the price? We offered 5,000Ush and left.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

To all my friends!

Happy Solstice everyone! Amber and I gave each other the same Obama poster without knowing. Our Obama shrine is looking quite formidable. I hope you all are celebrating in your own special ways. I raise my glass of Ugandan whiskey and makea toast to our families and friends. Lets drink to our health and to a happy new year! We love you all!

I also want to bring attention to a new link on the right hand side of the page. Our friends Lynn and Danny, whom we live just a few doors down from and go on a lot of adventures together here, are avid bloggers. Check their page out for a different perspective on some of the same things we're seeing and doing here. You may even find a picture of Amber and I.

Cheers!

Beating around in the bush


On field days we get up at 6 a.m. to take our malaria pills with coffee or tea and pack lunch for the day. We pick up Judith, Amber’s research assistant, at 7 and drive some 40km to Rwamuhuku village, located in Kiruhura District in southwestern Uganda (see map). The goal for the day is for Judith to conduct 4 interviews and for Amber and I to provide support. Amber can't participate in the interviews because her presence is a distraction to the villagers and that has a negative effect on the data. It’s a gorgeous morning and I’m looking forward to the drive because, as I saw last time out, the pothole crew has filled in most of the holes from Biharwe to Sanga (most of the stretch of highway we drive).
The first interviewee has been chosen by Amber from the village roster we obtained from the Village Chairman and we already know the general direction they live in so as we drive into the village we stop to ask for a safe place to park the car and to find out where the trailhead to their house is. We come upon a gathering of 20-30 men, women, and children, all holding plastic jugs. They’re buying milk from a man selling it from the back of his bicycle. He pours the milk from a large jerican into a measuring cup and then into the customers jug. A green banana forms the stopper in the jug. Judith hops out to ask while all the kids surround the car to stare at Amber and I and play with my arm hair. It turns out the milkman is the son of our interview subject. We were planning on walking to his house but the milkman says we can drive there. It’s too difficult to describe the way though and he can’t show us the way because he’s got to sell milk right now. I look around at the crowd as they are looking at us. The whole milk selling operation has ceased because of the 2 muzungus in town. Judith is so good, though, at making things happen. She jumps in front of the line to help get it going again and pretty soon it is. She’s cracking jokes, making the crowd laugh, as she’s passing empty jugs to the milkman and handing full jugs back to their owners. I turn the car around to help break up the crowd and to get pointed in the right direction. It’s not long before Judith, the milkman, Amber and I are driving through the grass and heading to the milkman’s house.
45 minutes later and Judith is conducting an interview of a wealthy rancher. These interviews can take over an hour so Amber and I go for a walk. It’s not long before we come upon a group of kids playing football with a ball made of a wad of plastic bags wrapped in a net. I think these kids were supposed to be in school because as we walk by they stop their game and join us, all the while asking us to come to school with them. Something you’ll see often in Uganda is two men holding hands while walking down the street together. They are showing affection for one another, sure, but this doesn’t mean they’re a couple, or “practicing gayism” as our friend Medard put it., it’s about friendship. As we walked one boy grabbed my hand and one boy grabbed Amber’s. Ironically, the boy who grabbed Amber’s hand was teased for it not the other way around like you might expect. A variation on hand holding you might see here is one guy holding the wrist of another guy. I don’t know if there’s a difference in meaning. Anyway these kids were sweet so we did go with them to their school and meet the teacher. Someone asked the teacher why our skin was it’s color and the teacher replied “they are your sisters and brothers”. This was all in rough translation, by the way, our translator was busy doing the interview, right? English is taught in school here but out in the villages there aren’t many people who speak it fluently. We get a lot of “Muzungu! How are you?! I am fine!”
It’s now hours later and while Judith is off somewhere hunting down an interviewee Amber and I have parked the RAV4 under a shady tree. I read a lot, we talk a lot, write a lot, Amber works on transcribing the interviews, we take pictures, we get visited by villagers who want to exercise their English. A man named Patrick comes by wanting me to see his property in case I might want to buy it. We take a walk up this little hill that borders the national park. His property is right next to the main gate to the park so there is a constant flow of traffic. There’s a great view of the park, it’s lake and the surrounding hills. From the hillside he explains to me his idea of building a lodge here for people visiting the park. He shows me where the bushes could be cleared for a parking lot and a little store with cold beverages. He tells me how at sunset the waterbuck and hippos come out to feed and from this hill you could sit with binoculars and watch. He’s really thought this through. His only obstacles are money and, the way he put it, not knowing the ways of the whites. He means he doesn’t know what we would like to eat or how to prepare it. Anyone interested? I could hook you up with Patrick. It would be a shame to spoil this spot, though.
As the sun ducks behind the hills Judith comes marching up to the car. She’s done her 4 interviews for the day so we load up and head for home while she tells us all about the people she’s come across today.